5 Simple Steps That Will Make You a Real Man

Look, seducing a woman does not have to be some silly, pre-set routine or a stupid set of gimmicks you picked up from some book. It's more about knowing how to trigger her interest and making her feel like YOU are the man that she needs to experience things with.

It's one thing to know how to get a woman’s attention. Any guy can get dressed up, and style his hair nicely to make women notice him. But that’s only one minor part of the game, and it’s far from the whole story. The ultimate goal is seduction. The ability to seduce women is what separates wussies from real men. Showing your interest, flirting shamelessly, using body language: these are all ingredients that make the thrill of the hunt so fun.

So let’s look at the things that really matter when it comes to seducing women:

1. Confidence – it’s the most crucial thing you have to gain in order to be successful in the game of seduction. A woman can tell just by instincts whether or not you are really a confident guy. That’s right she can smell that shit 10000 miles away – it’s in her DNA.  So don’t think too much about what to do, instead just relax and see what happens.

The most important advice: live in the moment. Enjoy what happens, not just the conversation with the girl, but the whole fun of having her around you. That's when the seduction occurs...when you're not looking for it. Control your emotions and simply go with the flow.

When women see you're calm, cool, collected and fun, that’s precisely when they're turned on the most!

2. Appearance - When you get ready to go out to meet her, make sure you look and smell your best.  Believe me you don’t have to be Brad Pitt to be successful with women. That’s right - for a woman looks are not as important as they are for us guys. Just make sure that your clothes look good and that you are well groomed and smell halfway decent. It will show you care and it will make them feel important.

3. Body language – once again women have a 6th sense when it comes to reading signs. They can read you like an open book. It doesn’t mean you have to be paranoid about it, instead just impose your presence. It's really important to sit up straight and have your shoulders back. You want to convey confidence and control as much as you can. Make sure you always maintain eye contact and most importantly, smile. 

4.  Being 'Cocky and Funny': Throw in some sarcasm when talking to her.  This works best with women with distinguished social value who are not used to this type of approach.  It will set you apart. Be careful – there is a limit to all of this: overdo it and they will be offended. Sense of humor is one of the top ways to attract women.  Make her laugh and half of your work is done.

5.  Make her feel sexual desire: Seduction is not about trying to make her like you, it's about being the guy that she cannot resist. So get to know the girl...tell her what you like about her. Then start talking sexually: make allusions, and sneak in comments about how good you are in bed. The first step towards having sex, is talking about it.

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Being a Natural vs. Being a Social Robot

Contrary to what most men believe, seduction is about so much more than saying a few magic lines to a woman and having them jump right into the sack. The game of seduction is far more complex than that. Unfortunately, this is what the “seduction community” has been reduced to because of marketers' efforts to sell you rehashed products that never really work.

Believe me, I bought most of the products out there on the market: ebooks, piles of CD and I even went to some seminars… What’s their recipe?  Apparently, as a “Master PUA”, you have to demonstrate to all the guys out there who paid for your products that you can throw down hilarious lines on demand. Then you have to mix in an outrageous individual style. In other words, if you are a seduction guru, your job is basically to seduce your audience. These are just “feel good about yourself” products that temporally inflate your ego. Whether women really respond to what is taught is really of secondary importance.

But let’s take a closer look at what they’re selling. The so called seduction “gurus” bulk up their products with LOTS of content, most of which is of no relevance whatsoever. Hours and hours of constant blabbering, which means you have to stick around longer with the promise of learning more “secrets”. That’s right, they have more products to sell.

Some of them are so full of psycho-babble that it makes you think the “guru” is actually trying to confuse his buyers. Well, they claim to use psychology, but it’s mostly junk science, misinterpreted.

Let’s go back to my favorite: the pick-up “routines”, and their fancy “strategies”. Sure they work, for the first 5 minutes at least. But what happens when you run out of things to say, what happens when you run out of your routines? More books, more seminars, more tricks? I don’t think so…

One more question: do you have a strategy for every type of girl there is out there? Yeah, I know what they told you: it will work for every single woman. But be careful with the “strategies”; most women are used to being approached, they can smell this stuff from miles away. They can sense it in your uncomfortable body language, stammering voice and wandering eyes…

Ok, ok, enough with the bullshit. If you want to be a parrot, a PUA wannabe, a mimic of your favorite guru, a social robot – then that’s your choice. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll score couple of times. But that’s it…

However, if you want to be really successful with women, well my friend, that’s another story. I’m going to tell you the secret upfront: if you want to seduce women you need to become a natural…

Imagine if you had the personality that was so charismatic, calm and confident in any social situation that you simply didn’t care what other people thought of you.

How about changing yourself internally, so that instead of becoming a social robot, you come across as a NATURAL!

I’ve taken the ideas, beliefs and mindsets that make the difference between a sexually abundant pick-up artist and the average frustrated male - and I've transformed them into hypnotic suggestions that install themselves automatically within your neurology. Simple as that.

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How to Clinch Your Inner Game

Take a look at yourself in the mirror. That’s right take a good hard look at the MAN you see in front of you. What do you see? Do you see yourself as an average, boring guy, a clumsy person? If that’s the case then give yourself couple of big slaps. If that’s how you see yourself, then you can be absolutely sure that people around you won’t see you any differently.

A man full of self-doubt will be absolutely consumed by fear when he first makes an opening line to a woman. The self-doubt works to weaken every man that does not have that natural self-assurance that must be developed before approaching a hot girl.

No, you’re not hopeless. On the contrary, you’re just taking the same dead end path that I, and many others have taken before you. You simply need to reprogram your inner beliefs and that’s exactly why I’m here, to guide you through the process.  I will show you how to work on your inner game.

You have to realize that much of your success with women depends on your confidence far more than on your techniques. One more important thing: your real seductive values are more than skin deep and they certainly should not depend on your external appearance. Remember that confidence and sense of humor is a lot sexier to women than looks and money, especially in the long-term.

Your best option is simply to be yourself. You’ve probably heard this many times. Easy to say, hard to do. But hang on…

Once you understand that your core personality, moral principles, and strong values are what really matter, the way you look, talk and act will be deeply affected. The change starts from the inside and will shape each action you make. You'll find yourself oozing confidence wherever you go when you finally clinch your inner game.

How about your talent, your special something? Believe me we all have something different that sets us apart from the guy sitting next to you. Just make sure you’re really passionate about it and she will share your hobby/obsession right away. Women feed on emotions, be genuine about it and they will adore you.

So, are you great with your guitar? Do you love your Chevrolet Infinity? Or are you a creative bartender?

Whatever it is, we all have our own strong points, and that's what is most attractive to women. Make sure you build upon them.

The most important asset you must maintain at all times is your personal confidence, integrity, and a charismatic personality. Developing your "inner game" takes some theory and a lot of practice. As I’ve mentioned before, you'll need to know who you are and what you want out of life.

Working on your charismatic personality isn’t as hard as it seems. In fact I’ve created a program that reprograms your personality and allows you to clinch your inner game once and for all using a fast and simple method: hypnosis. It’s been around for centuries, and it gives amazing results.

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How to destroy your crippling fear and finally seduce women

It is your regular Saturday night out at the local bar or club. You are hanging with your friends, chatting and laughing, and not really caring about much. You go to dance floor and start scanning the room. And then you see her, 5 feet away, dancing with her friends. The room lights up.

You make eye contact... 4 seconds.

Those lips, those eyes, her body moving just at the right beat... 3 seconds.

She's really something... 2 seconds.

You need to know who she is, if she’s willing to... 1 second.

But then she turns and walks right towards you. You know what you need to do. She walks by and you can almost smell her. It's time. You try to open your mouth but something is holding you back. You can’t find a thing to say, you put your head in the ground and you simply freeze.

She keeps walking... and then she's gone.

How many times has this happened to you? How many times did you find excuses and said to yourself: next time I will do it, or: she wasn’t my type anyway…

If you can't approach a woman, you're pretty much guaranteed to fail at seducing them.

We all have fears in our life. There are some things that are a little scary and then there are others that when we even just consider confronting them, we experience paralyzing fear.

But can fear ever really be paralyzing? Can fear ever really stop you from doing anything?

I need you to stop for a second and think back to a time when you were afraid of doing something... but then you did it anyway. Remember the first time you dived in the water and learned to swim, the first time you drove a car or maybe you even jumped from an airplane… Was it scary? I bet it was! But were you able to act despite your fear? Yes, you were.

How are women scarier then any of those situations I’ve mentioned? You’re mind deals with fear in the same way if it’s walking through fire or kissing a girl for the first time. 

I’m sure you’ve already been here: the first time you approached a girl you really liked, or the first time you asked a girl for her phone number, first time you lent in for a kiss.

So the next time your approach anxiety is crippling, feel that sensation fully in your body, and then ask yourself: What do I stand to gain by acting and what do I stand to lose?"

There is a quote that goes something like "the only real failure is not trying".

All you need is to get your confidence back. And that’s where I can help you.

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5 Secrets of Women

So you are trying to become better at the art of seducing women right? You are on the right track if you are seeking info. You know what they say: know your opponent in order to win the game. And you know what the game of seduction isn’t any different.
 
Once you understand women, you will take them off that pedestal. You will never again think of yourself as unworthy or inferior to woman once you will get inside their heads.

The first thing you must know is that women are emotional beings. Women operate a great deal based on their emotions, they often act on impulses. So don’t approach them with your logical side because you will hit a brick wall. This is one of the key secrets in the seduction game. Always, I repeat, always appeal to their emotional side.

Women hardly make any logical decisions. Once you understand this you’ll be able to take advantage of it. Don’t waste your time judging what they did and why they did it. Instead simply pay attention to what they’re doing and what they’re feeling. And focus on what you want to make them feel. If you can just trigger the right emotional buttons inside a woman you are in the game.

Here are some of the myths we need to destroy if you ever want to be successful with women:

1. Women only like hot guys

No, no, no and no. Just look at all those ugly guys walking around with beautiful women. In fact, how you look isn't even in the top five things that women look for when choosing a potential partner! Demand, value, confidence, sense of humor and security are all more important!

2. A woman likes it when a man throws himself at her

Women hate it when they are on a date with a needy guy who does nothing but shower her with gifts, dinners, flowers. It shows her that you've scored a date and you don't want to let her go. Women want a real man next to them not a desperate wuss. 

3. Women love to be showered with compliments

Oh for gods sakes. How many times do you think she heard all those crappy lines before? Compliments are good but pay extra attention to what you say and how many times you say it: be original and most important be honest or she’ll sense it. You'll receive a big fat red tick in the "loser" column if you’re lying.

4. Women only go for men they can control

The truth is this guys: women don't know what they want. I told you early on, they act on sheer instinct. They will tell you one thing and go and do the complete opposite. It takes a brutally honest woman to say what she really wants in a guy. What women really want is a dominant man, they simply don’t want to lead but just to have the illusion that they are.

5. Women don't need sex as much as men do

The truth is women can't be as open on the subject as they will get labeled "slut". In fact women love sex, in fact most of the girls I dated like sex more then the average man. Deep down, they are just as horny as us men are and once turned on – a skill a lot of men just haven't mastered yet – they can’t be stopped. When it comes to sex women are just like us men: they masturbate and watch porn (or read those romance novels full of sex scenes). Again you have to know how to push their buttons.

Is hypnosis the way to improve your inner game?

First of all I know that there are a lot of misconceptions out there about hypnosis. This article will tell you what hypnosis really is and exactly why it is such a great way to improve your state of mind and your inner game.

Hypnosis is basically a meditation process. The human mind is very susceptible to suggestion and visualization, hypnosis a very real way to reprogram your inner beliefs and even for therapy intervention. Because your body is on auto-pilot and allowed to be in a complete state of relaxation and peace, hypnosis is also a pleasant experience. Of course the experience is going to differ from one person to the next, but the overall feeling can be one of euphoria.

Is hypnosis a new age scam?

Definitely not.

Milton Erickson, a 20th century founder of hypnotherapy, actually began to popularize the practice with his studies and methods.  The American Medical Association and American Psychological Association both recognized hypnosis as a valid form of treatment in 1958.  Then in 1995 the National Institutes for Health, part of the United States Department of Health and Human Services, recommended hypnotherapy for treatment of chronic pain.

Here’s what other specialist had to say about hypnosis:

“Words framed as part of a carefully-crafted suggestion can change focal brain activity in a way no drug we have can do." - Dr. Amir Raz.

This is why hypnosis is so powerful. It is short, automatic, effortless and delivers real results fast. Yep, there are shortcuts, things you can eliminate to shorten your learning curve and hypnosis is the perfect solution.

Once again, seduction is all about inner game: building self confidence, destroying your inner fears, creating your own unique way of flirting with women. What better way to do this then a simple, safe and straightforward method such as hypnosis?

By using this natural method of programming beliefs into the deepest part of your mind, where instinct and automatic thinking and performance come from, you are able to effectively "hardwire" yourself to perform better mentally and physically.

Here are some tips for mastering your inner-game:

1. Know your triggers and know yourself. In order to increase your confidence, it is very important to know what triggers those negative thoughts and emotions that you have about yourself. Controlling your inner voice and what you say to yourself either makes or breaks your self-esteem and confidence.

2. Celebrate the smallest victories. Acknowledging each time you succeed at a task or when someone pays you a compliment can positively impact your neurology.

3. Feed on good things and more of it will come to you.
So next time you're in a potential dead-end situation and that little inner voice says something that could keep you from succeeding, simply acknowledge it and grab its power by saying "thanks but no thanks!” Then refocus and take action.

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What can you do to improve your inner game?

Anything that is consciously derived by humans has to be learned, taught, and worked on in order to gain mastery. Solid mental training is the essential to mastering any skill, any sport or any area of expertise. The seduction game isn’t any different.

We were all raised to be humble and not to brag about ourselves or our accomplishments. It is now time to forget about all that and tell the world who you are and what you want to do. You can shift your thinking and change your entire life. I have done this and have seen others do it as well, some on a large scale.

Many of us go through our lives haphazardly, allowing our thoughts to drift and control us. Know precisely what you want, focus and then take steps every day to get there. They can be baby steps, but you must have a goal in mind whenever you are awake. It can get frustrating at times but if you’re really determined then trust me, you won’t fail.

When you approach a beautiful woman and you feel anxious, it doesn't help to tell yourself that you are every woman’s wild fantasy while you sweat and freeze in fear. The trick is: if you don't genuinely believe what you're saying, you won't ever improve.

What are your demons? "I am not good enough for a beautiful woman" or "I'm going to get rejected if I approach a woman." These beliefs are examples of approach anxiety. You can't just cover up your insecurities and frustration by lying to yourself and expect great results. The only way positive self talk can work is if you destroy the negative beliefs that are causing your anxiety, fear, frustration, or any other negative emotions.

Another useful technique is using positive affirmations to improve your confidence and inner game. It helps you incorporate powerful positive beliefs into your mindset. The affirmations must be positive and non-limiting, goal oriented, and evoke confident emotions.

Another thing you could do is meditation. It is worth it to spend twenty minutes every day in a quiet meditation where you focus on exactly what you want. Find a quiet place to think. I, for instance, like to sit on my bed, in total silence. As my thoughts move around I focus on the ones that have me living exactly as I would like. I then hold that thought for as long as possible. Meditation takes time to learn. At first, it may seem difficult to concentrate, your thoughts may begin to wander, it may become boring at times…but after a few weeks you’ll begin to see results and notice shifts in your behavior.

But enough with the theory. In order to become master in the seduction game you also need practice. So the simplest of advice would be: have a social life, and develop social skills. The nice thing that happens when you “get a life” is that you can merge these together into what I would call a healthy, balanced social life. Once you are social, and you're meeting women naturally and on a regular basis, then you’ll stop trying. You won’t be as needy and desperate, it will feel normal, and more importantly – you will feel the change under your skin.

This is an experience that every man needs in order to, on a certain day, see a woman you like and approach her, talk to her, and get her phone number. Every guy needs to have the experience of going from not knowing a woman to knowing her, hopefully intimately. It's very powerful, and it changes your reality. It also boosts your confidence. It helps you know that you can go after the things you want in life, not only women, but everything.

One more thing: there are shortcuts and things you can eliminate to shorten your learning curve. Hypnosis is by far the most powerful technique out there. It is short, automatic, effortless, and delivers real results fast. If you want to find out more simply log on to: www.radicalinnergame.com and discover how you can reprogram your mind in just 20 minutes a day.